December 26th, 2008
neverhappyy3 asked: does anyone have a mamas boy for a husband? Do they talk about you marital problems when your not around?
Daniel
Tags: Mamas Boy, Marital Problems
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 3 Comments »
December 25th, 2008
melissa asked: Since you have been married, do you go to marriage counseling, do you find it helpful?
Samuel
Tags: Marriage, Pre Marriage Counseling
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 11 Comments »
December 25th, 2008
prplstar asked: He feels something but I don’t? But I don’t want to give up what should I do?
Have tried pornos and toys. Even rolled played it that helps.
Jorge
Tags: Marital Problems, Pornos, Toys
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 7 Comments »
December 24th, 2008
Born in Bost asked: I am having excrutiating marital problems with my wife. We are verging on separation/divorce, and the emotional roller coaster ride has me exhausted and stressed out beyond description. I need some support. Is there an online forum where people in my situation commiserate? Misery loves company …
Allan
Tags: Divorce, Emotional Roller Coaster, Roller Coaster Ride
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 15 Comments »
December 22nd, 2008
Dsoftball asked: My husband and I have had a lot of problems even to the point to where we took a week away from each other (more his idea than mine). Things are going great so far. We’ve been back together for 3 weeks now. I lost a lot of confidence in myself and our relationship. I need some suggestions on how to get my confidence in myself and the way he feels for me back???…
Sue
Tags: Lot, Marital Problems, Relationship
Posted in Other - Family & Relationships | 11 Comments »
December 22nd, 2008
bostonsdig asked: He is somewhat controlling. We have been married for 11 years and are currently going to marriage counseling, I feel like he felt he’s losing control of me, so he moved on to try to manipulate my parents to be on his side. He said he just loves them and wants them to know what is going on. My Mom worries about everything little thing and this kept her up all night. What do you think?
I had already mentioned to my parents that we were having some problems only because he kept threatening to leave. I didn’t go into many details.
The dynamics of our relationship have changed over that last few years. I lost some weight and my professional career has blossomed somewhat. He became very jealous, possessive. I feel that my newly found self-respect is a threat to him.
I do feel like we have grown apart.
Micheal
Tags: 11 Years, Mom, Parents
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 21 Comments »
December 18th, 2008
steve m asked: My wife walked out over two weeks ago,. we have been talking and I asked her if it would be ok for me to set up marriage counseling. She agreed that we should go, but Im not sure if it’s even going to help. I want her home and she keeps telling me that shes not ready. Do you really think that the counseling will help?
Tina
Tags: Marriage, Marriage Counseling, Marriage Help
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 14 Comments »
December 12th, 2008
Poli-Ticked asked: First right answer gets 10 points…
Hillary supporters riding the Rev. Wright train, be prepared to be really mad at yourselves for being the pot calling the kettle black….
Jay
Tags: Monica, Scandal, Train
Posted in Elections | 5 Comments »
December 11th, 2008
Louis asked: I do not have any children and I am far to be willing to have any anytime soon! (I could always adopt)
Rafael
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 3 Comments »
December 9th, 2008
jc1214 asked: My husband and I are going through a huge crisis in our marriage. He has confessed to several affairs, to being sexual with other women and that he has been living a double life with me over the past 4 and a half years that we have been married. The part I have known about our lives have been really good…but I have been lied to for years about his other life and Im trying to deal with that.
He has begged me to give him a chance to show he has changed his ways…which is why he confessed everything in the first place. I didnt find out on my own and would have still been in the dark if he hadnt told me.
The thing is…his family knew of his other life. They obviously have moral issues…his brother is a jerk and his mom has lived a very hard life so none of this is anything out of the norm for them. It is for me though. I honestly never knew my husband was capable of some of the things he has done and the lies he has told me.
Anyway, to make a long story short….his family lives 4 hours away and wants to come visit. A week ago his mom (who is very pushy and wants to dominate everything) came to visit and my husband asked if she would stay with his brother who lives close to us (at my request). I just dont feel up to facing these people and having them in my home right now. Now, a week later, his whole family “is coming” down…which is fine if they stay with his brother but they are coming to see my 1 yr old daughter.
I dont mind if my husband takes my child to see them at his brothers house but I JUST DONT FEEL UP TO HAVING THEM ALL HERE right now. There are too many raw emotions running through me and I honestly havent decided to stay or leave my husband yet. We are also having some huge fights at this time. I want to separate for a while but right now I have no where to go, no job and its complicated because of our daughter. I wish these people would respect the fact that I need space right now. My husband told his mother we needed time and space to figure things out…they are just the kind of people that dont get it and dont understand limits and boundries.
Am I being selfish not wanting to entertain his family or have them in our home right now. I know they havent done anything but there son and brother has done something huge!!! I told him if he wanted to be a big happy family like we were before, he should have thought about that when he decided to live a double life with me. I just feel I need time and space until I figure this thing out.
They are coming down regardless of how I feel…but I know they are coming because they want to see my daughter who they just saw a week ago. They dont have to stay here but I suppose I have to let them see her, huh? I just dont like any of them right now.
Brent
Tags: Brother, Divorce, Job
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 10 Comments »
