I don’t get this, we are all screwed up! Even if you have a happy marriage you can benefit from counseling because you are learning ways to communicate.
About a year before my wife and I married we went to premartial counseling. I learned a lot about communication and learned how to protect my marriage (from my own mother) by setting up boundaries. And honestly, we are very happy now that I have learned to keep my mother away from my relationship with my wife.
We can always improve ourselves and there is nothing wrong with admitting you aren’t perfect and can use some improvement.
Why do people think marriage counseling is so bad?
I needed counseling before I married because of ME, my problems were affecting our relationship.
Improving MYSELF benefiting our relationship in a positive way.
Paul
