Counselor Family Marriage

trying2keepittogether asked:


I am located in Japan with the US military. My home town is a little town on the beach in Mississippi. I just now was able to visit and see the damage of Katrina. It hurt! Very much hit home for me. My husband is getting kicked out of the military and now we are trying to find work and a place to stay in my home area. My grandmother down there has altimerz (however you spell it), my mother is having mini strokes, and I have everyone else in my family telling me to drop everything that help them both out. Everyone in my family has their own problems, even myself. I haven’t even started school. I want to try and work things out with my husband of three years because things have not been going in the right direction, but I have my family bearing down on me like wolves. I love my mother to death and my grandmother, but I want to have my own life. Is this wrong? And can I do both if I have no work experience and need to start school? I have a older brother in medschool near them. Why me?

Gladys