Have you ever tried marriage counseling? How did it help you out? What should I look out for when selecting a good Christian marriage counselor?
Jeanette
Wondering if someone tried marriage counseling. I heard it was a lot of money and I don’t have any money, but I am willing to work 2 jobs to pay for it if it will make us stronger and better.
Cindy
She is helping me prepare for the ROTC by helping me achieve the physical requirements by training twice a week as well as quizzing me on the mental. She is making time for me.
Now here’s the problem. I just found out she has been having marital problems since she moved here. Her husband has been emotionally abusive, even though she is meeting ROTC physical requirements her husband says she’s not thin enough ans has threatened divorce because of it*. She was married four months prior to moving here**. So I’ve been having doubts about her motives. All this time I thought she was married and off limits. Now…I’m conflicted. I don’t know what to do, what can I do? I would be interested if she is***.
Didn’t have enough room to add details.
*Among other things including telling him he outright hates her.
** She has been married for about a year.
***I think she is. The way she looks at me just screams of interest.
* Correction, HE outright hates HER.
Alvin
